Dr. Frankie's Community
Dr. Frankie's Community
Dr. Frankie Bashan

Welcome to Dr. Frankie's Community

Join our private singles community of caring, queer professionals for friends, love, growth & joy!

Hello! In Case We Haven't Met Yet, 

Let Me Introduce Myself 

And The Community...

I'm Dr. Frankie, a clinical psychologist, sex therapist, relationship coach, founder of Little Gay Book, and owner of the only Lesbian Matchmaking Agency exclusively for women in the country.

I've worked as a psychologist for over 20 years and have also completed over 25,000 matchmaking introductions in the last 10 years- with one of the highest matchmaking success rates in the industry. My expertise has been featured nationally on NPR, TEDx, and MTV, as well as in publications like Curve, Glamour, and Cosmopolitan.

In 2020 I had the privilege of being the Relationship Expert on MTV’s Historic “Are You The One,” series, featuring the first 100% sexually fluid cast on television.

And now I want to bring my expertise as both a psychologist and lesbian matchmaker to help you find love. With over a decade of doing this work, I’ve seen that often the first step towards finding your match is finding your community.

A Like Hearted Community 

Is The Space Where 

Love Can Truly Flourish. 

If you have the joy of being a part of a great community, if you have people that love and respect you, then when you meet someone special and the relationship grows, it's supported by the community- so you can experience your best selves through the ups and downs.  

I cannot emphasize enough how crucial this is.

But Here's The Thing, 

Community Can Be Tricky...

Queer Love Is Beautiful, Special, And Nuanced…

Self-reliance is a strength. Coming out later in life can often mean long stretches of avoiding dating out of fear of being judged.

Lesbian Culture can be a once in a lifetime support system. And it can sometimes be tricky to navigate or even intimidating if you didn’t come out early, or if you are gender non conforming or bisexual or a transgender woman.

I understand the nuances. I’ve given a lot of thought to creating this space for you to be appreciated, cherished, and celebrated without having to apologize or explain yourself.

I want to see you surrounded by people who cherish & support you.

I know so many people that you would connect GREAT with. People who GET you. Can you ever have enough good friends? 

That’s why I created the Little Gay Book Online Community.

It Is Unlike Anything Else 

Available In The Country, 

And It Can Completely Change 

Your Life For The Better,

In Many Ways Beyond Love & Friendships.

Want A Peek Into Our Community?

The LGB Community is for Lesbian, Bisexual, Trans Women, Genderqueer, and Gender non-binary folks :)

We got the Community going during the pandemic. This list is changing and growing every day- and we are just getting started! 

I can help you shine and feel a sense of belonging, even if you're shy or feel nervous around groups. I want to introduce you to wonderful people that will see just how fantastic you truly are.

I know that being a part of our fabulous community will help you find absolutely incredible, generous, caring, queer, single professionals for friendship, flirting, dating, and lasting relationships that will fully appreciate, support, and love you.

Here Are Some Of The Things That Currently Make Our Little Gay Book Community Members Happy…

Here's How The Little Gay Book Community Works...

In addition to being connected to like-minded, generous-hearted people from all over the world in a safe online space accessible by any of your devices (and off of Facebook!), there’s also drop-in weekly community happy hours, and weekly group sessions with me, where I’ll guide us through laid-back, casual, yet informative and interesting conversations on topics like relationships, love, sex, health, dating, work-life balance, and family dynamics. 

We also have monthly community-led events and activities like a Lit Club, Cooking Sessions, and Movie nights. Everything is optional, come and go as you like, and it’s all included in the membership!

Welcome To The World 

Of “Slow Dating” 

One thing it feels like we are all learning from the pandemic, whether we like it or not, is the focus on S L O W I N G  D O W N. 

If you like dating app culture, and want to be able to do quick left and right swipes to determine your next relationship, then let me save you some time, this is probably not going to be a good fit.

If your idea of getting to know someone is to first look up all the hotties, and then slide into someone’s DMs hoping for a date, without participating in any of the conversations or group events to first try to get to know people on a personal level, then this community is not going to be for you.

The Little Gay Book Community is different than any other dating program that exists, because it takes a “Friendship First” approach to dating and relationships.

By actively participating in the group discussion topics, whether it’s sharing your favorite books/movies/podcasts/music, or learning a new recipe, being silly, or bonding over current events, it’s amazing how we all get to know each other from a more authentic, no pressure place. 

You’ll organically start loving people’s quirks, or appreciating how kind someone is, or how someone is full of humor, or how another member has interesting life stories and experiences to share. 

And whether it’s deep friendships blossoming or exploring flirty moments, there’s a depth and richness with these relationships that can be hard to find. Isn’t that a great place to naturally fall in love?

And the best part is that a year-long membership is less than the cost of 1 month of weekly private coaching calls with me- it’s a crazy good deal!

And there’s absolutely no obligation. You can choose to be a month to month member and cancel anytime- with no pressure. 

As soon as you join, you’ll receive an email with a link to our community.

You’ll have an opportunity to share where you live and what makes you happy, so that you can quickly and easily be warmly welcomed by the group!

You’ll be able to see member profiles and contributions and immediately start to connect with others through the discussion topics and weekly events. It’s amazing how quickly bonds can form!

Here’s A Recap Of What’s Included In Your Membership And What Makes The Little Gay Book Community So Special:

  • Meet people who share your interests, who live near you, (or in cool places you'll want to visit!), who want genuine connections, and who care about similar values, or who might even help provide insight into seeing a different perspective.

  • Foster deep, meaningful, worldwide conversations with quality, queer, successful, like-minded friends in a high-caliber community you can’t find anywhere else.

  • Get access to expert support & group discussions during Dr. Frankie's Weekly Happy Hours

  • Engage in the Weekly Learning Discussions (topics on dating, wellness, communication, sex, body acceptance, and more!)

  • Learn & Swap Resources on the best travel tips, movies, recipes, podcasts, music, books, and hobbies

  • Expand possibilities of meeting a lasting love match in our “no pressure, friends first” environment

  • Exclusive Member Pricing Discounts! Get 15% off all online Single Mingle Speed Dating events, Digital Training Courses, and Compatibility Consultations

Come join our engaging conversations, connections, and sharing of awesome resources & favorite recommendations! 

Our community is generous, respectful, resourceful, professional, and caring- you will fit right in! :)

If there was ever a time to be supported by a great community, it’s right now.

Just scroll all the way to the top of this page.

Click "Choose a Plan" and select either the monthly or annual membership.

Come Meet Your New Friends :)


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